Friday, December 3, 2010

Love struck ?

My dear love-struck-but-never-received-heart-broken friends, there's something I'd like to share from my personal experiences: as awesome as the word sounds NOSTALGIA is a BITCH !
Move on. Throw away. Burn down or if bio-degradable then dig a hole and decompose anything that reminds you of him or her. Single hood is a bliss. Think about the good things:
* You can flirt with anyone ;-)
* You have more time to hang out with your friends (with no questions asked)
* Date anyone you like
* Best thing is, you'll have a really sad break up-cum-heart break => sympathy votes :D
Of course there are some drawbacks to it, you see, every coin has two faces. You might feel lonely and stuff at times blah blah. But all you need to do is avoid certain kind of atmosphere for some time, like:
* hanging out with couples...real bad move. At an unavoidable situation, try to emphasis on the fights or differences of a relationship (IN YOUR MIND). Or just do the previous exercise out loud :p
* you might simply chose to move on.

Moving on tips
* Get drunk and abuse him (sorry not applicable for 'her')
Frankly, just ignore everything anyone says about your relationship or anything that I've written above. There is just one person who can make you happy and thats you !
Your best friends or siblings or parents can just help you to feel better but no one can change your feelings. Past is like a mole on the skin, you might try to hide it with loads of make up but it'll always be there, hidden beneath. And its more certain than today or tomorrow because it's already happened and unchangeable. There's so much as just one way, acceptance.
The quicker you be true to yourself about your feeling the easier it'll be to move forward. Always remember, it happened and ignorance wont change it but acceptance can help you :)

xoxo

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